Friday, May 24, 2024

La Fin de La Semaine Essay Question: Special "I Don't Think This Relationship Can Be Saved" Edition

Still recovering from last night's live show by Southside Johnny and the Asbury Jukes -- a bunch of real heroes of mine, and yet I hadn't seen them since well before the pandemic -- so today's intro will be necessarily brief.

In other words, let's get immediately to the weekend's business. To wit:

...and your favorite (or least favorite) post-Elvis pop/rock/country/soul song about a boy/girlfriend from hell, the one that got away, a fucked up romance or a sad break-up is...???

No arbitrary rules, although I was sorely tempted to exclude anything by Joni Mitchell or Taylor Swift, just because I don't give a rodent's behind about either of their romantic problems.

Heh.

Anyway, my nominee is this amazingly catchy yelp by brilliant Chicago power popsters Material Issue.

A song I find hysterically funny, until I remember that MI auteur Jim Ellison offed himself in his garage (carbon monoxide poisoning) shortly after committing it to tape in 1996.

Which is to say it's a lot more autobiographical than anybody knew prior to his sad passing.

In any case, now that I've thoroughly depressed you -- what would YOUR choices be?

And have a great weekend, everybody!!!

41 comments:

  1. "Backstreets" by Bruce. It levels me every time.

    paulinca

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  2. She Loves The Jerk. John Hiatt.

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  3. sad breakup - definitely Todd Rundgren's "can we still be friends"

    "we had something to learn - now it's time for the wheel to turn"

    and - not actually sad, but saluting those one is no longer with - Willie Nelson's "to all the girls i've loved before" - the duet he and Julio Iglesias do on it really works, although you might not have thought so before

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  4. Todd Rundgren- Torch Song

    "I will pine forever. I will carry my torch for you."

    Jeezaloo!

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  5. Wait Until Tomorrow - Jimi Hendrix Experience
    I’m A Loser - The Beatles
    So Begins The Task - Stephen Stills
    Tip Of My Tongue - John Hiatt

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  6. Jai Guru Dave5/24/2024 11:07 AM

    “Is She Really Going Out With Him?” by Joe Jackson: a song I would always sing looking over at Steve back in the day.
    I keed! I keed! 😁

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  7. Who can forget Lindsey Buckingham.
    angst in Rumors -
    Go Your Own Way
    The Chain
    Never Going Back

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  8. One more from Lindsey -
    Go Insane

    rob -: this one and previous

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  9. FoW - Hackensack...

    with Maureen, This Better Be Good, Leave the Biker, I-95, and No Better Place as worthy alternates

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  10. Just about every song on Marty Stuart’s The Pilgrim album?? I suggest the Deluxe Edition reissue if you can find it.

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  11. JD- was just talking about Stuart with my Sister, who knew of him from afar
    Check out McGuinn on you tube on Marty's show
    Now to Steves query today,-
    Who could forget Dylan's masterpiece
    " Like A Rolling Stone" as well as
    " Idiot Wind"
    rob

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  12. Randy Newman's "A Wedding in Cherokee County"

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  13. 8:05 by Moby Grape
    Positively 4th Street by Bob Dylan
    almost anything by Richard Thompson...
    rs

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  14. "I Can Tell Your Love Is Waning" - Slobberbone

    "'Cause I can tell your love is waning from the looks and smell of it
    Like getting caught behind a cattle truck and all you smell is shit"

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  15. Up the Junction--Squeeze
    Go Home Girl--Arthur Alexander; Ry Cooder's version always gets to me
    Beeswing--Richard Thompson; as RS mentions above, plenty of candidates from his catalogue!

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  16. Slobberbone also did "Shoot You Dead"

    "See, I got myself another but
    She ain't nothin' like you, dear
    She don't feel the need to slap me
    Or stick pencils in my ear"

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  17. A couple from Chris Whitley’s brilliant first album: Poison Girl and I Forget You Every Day. One of a kind and gone way too soon.

    Another gone way too soon: Warren Zevon. Lots of material there, but I’ll pick the exquisitely beautiful Accidentally Like a Martyr and the bitterly hilarious The Hula Hula Boys.

    Tonio K - Go Away, but for maximum effect, make sure you read the liner notes and think the background vocals at the appropriate points.

    The Who - A Legal Matter works for the girlfriend from hell; Bargain for the fucked up romance. Sometime I think Bargain is the best song Townshend ever wrote, and it may also be Keith Moon’s finest recorded performance. And according to his liner notes for the Who’s Next box set, it wasn’t actually written for Lifehouse.

    As others have mentioned, Richard Thompson has tons of these, but I’ll nominate two: For Shame of Doing Wrong from the magnificent Pour Down Like Silver during the Richard and Linda period, and Devonside from his first post-Linda period.

    And I can’t pass up “girlfriend from hell” without mentioning the Eagles’ Good Day in Hell, with some terrific slide guitar from Don Felder.

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  18. Tornio K - The Night Fast Eddie Went Crazy, Hatred.

    Easybeats - Heaven & He’ll

    Captain Al

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  19. Nilsson - You're Breakin' My Heart (So Fuck You!)

    VR

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  20. Oh, and "You're So Vain."

    Carly Simon

    VR

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  21. And some Beatles:

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    Not a Second Time
    I'm a Loser

    VR just wakin' up to Julio my PT. Time to work out the poison.

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  22. Why D'ya Do It? - Marianne Faithfull
    Little Girl - Syndicate Of Sound
    Johnny Hit And Run Paulene - X
    Joey - Concrete Blonde
    If we're talking Richard Thompson, I'll go with She Twists The Knife Again and Ghosts In The Wind, both from his finest album, and 1952 Vincent Black Lightning, his finest song.
    C in California

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  23. Fucked-up Romance: Amazing Rhythm Aces: Third-Rate Romance (Low-Rent Rendezvous),
    although I prefer Elvis Costello's take: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VwWyYQbrrBU&t=93s

    Sad Break-up: Slobberbone: Gimme Back My Dog: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U58sLtoiscA

    Girlfriend from Hell: Mojo Nixon: She's All Liquored Up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kVO_CHo2LPU

    The One that got Away: The Godfathers: Pretty Girl: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U8MM3QAzFQ0

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  24. "Tear Stained Letter" by Richard Thompson

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  25. She Darked the Sun -- Gene Clark

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  26. Painful one that got away: Yellow Coat by Steve Goodman
    Break up songs in general: How many Elvis Costello songs can we count?

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  27. getawaygoober5/25/2024 2:47 AM

    I Like 'em Big and Stupid - Julie Brown

    Re: JD Goldberg - 10-4 on Stuart's Pilgrim.

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  28. Afternoon Tea - The Kinks

    The Captain Al

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  29. Some stuff I thought of on the way back from a jazz gig and after hours mischief in Hollywood. For your playlist:

    She’s Not There - The Zombies
    I Just Don’t Know What to Do with Myself - Dusty Springfield
    Walk Away Renee - Left Banke
    That’s No Way to Say Goodbye - Leonard Cohen
    Crying - Roy Orbison
    Hot Burrito #1 - Flying Burrito Brothers
    Remember - Greg Kihn
    Sorrow - David Bowie version
    The Wind Cries Mary - Jimi Hendrix Experience
    She’s Gone - Hall & Oates
    Drown In My Own Tears - Ray Charles/Joe Cocker
    Insider - Tom Petty & the Heartbreakers
    Tainted Love - Soft Cell/Gloria Jones
    I've Been Loving You Too Long - Otis Redding
    Holding On to Yesterday - Ambrosia
    These Eyes - Guess Who
    Tracks of My Tears - Smokey Robinson & the Miracles
    Don't Think Twice, It's Alright - Bob Dylan
    These Days - Jackson Browne/Gregg Allman
    It Makes No Difference - The Band
    That Song About the Midway - Joni Mitchell
    By the Time I Get to Phoenix - Glen Campbell
    Almost Hear You Sigh - Rolling Stones
    Slippin' Away - Chris Hillman
    Lyin' Eyes - Eagles
    Ain't No Sunsine - Bill Withers
    I'd Rather Go Blind - Etta James/Christine McVie & Chicken Shack
    Do You Know What I Mean - Lee Michaels
    It Wouldn't Have Made Any Difference - Todd Rundgren (being as Torch Song already mentioned)
    Did I Ever Love You? - Fleetwood Mac
    Photograph - Ringo Starr
    Babe I’m Gonna Leave You - Led Zeppelin/Quicksilver Messenger Service (not Joan Baez)
    Burned - Buffalo Springfield
    I Can't Tell You Why - Eagles
    Sunspot Baby - Bob Seger
    Feel Like Breaking Up Somebody’s Home - Ann Peebles
    Still In Love with You - Thin Lizzy
    All Over Now - Rolling Stones
    Loan Me a Dime - Boz Scaggs
    Ticket to Ride - Beatles (somebody must have mentioned Yesterdya already)
    One Less Bell to Answer - 5th Dimension
    I Want You Back - Jackson 5/Graham Parker
    What It Takes - Aerosmith
    Love Needs a Heart - Jackson Browne/Valerie Carter
    I’ll Feel a Whole Lot Better - Byrds
    Sad Memory - Buffalo Springfield
    I Changed the Locks - Lucinda Williams
    Get Out of My Life Woman - Lee Dorsey
    Songs She Sang In the Shower - Jason Isnell
    Look Into the Sun - Jethro Tull
    Don’t Speak - No Doubt
    Good Friday - Black Crowes
    Pretending to Care - Todd Rundgren
    How Can You Mend a Broken Heart - Bee Gees
    I’ll Follow the Sun - Beatles
    White Room - Cream
    Out of Tears - Rolling Stones
    Whipping Post - Allman Brothers Band
    Idiot Wind - Bob Dylan
    When the Well Runs Dry - Drive-by Truckers
    Where Did Our Love Go - Supremes
    What Becomes of the Brokenhearted - Jimmy Ruffin
    Down By the River - Neil Young
    Barstool Blues - Neil Young
    Can't Let Go - Lucinda Williams
    Love Hurts - Everly Brothers/Gram Parsons & Emmylou Harris
    1,000 Wedding - Gram Parsons
    Red Rubber Ball - Cyrkle
    50 Ways to Leave Your Lover - Paul Simon


    VR

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  30. I think I forgot

    MacArthur Park - take your pick of Richard Harris, Waylon Jennings, Three Degrees, Donna Summer or Wayne Kramer.

    It's late. The sun is up. Time to come crashin' in.

    VR Love of My Life - Queen

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  31. Cold Rain & Snow, Peggy-O - Grateful Dead

    The Captain once again.

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  32. Whole albums on the theme of relationship regret: Go-Betweens 16 Lovers Lane, Dylan Blood On The Tracks, Richard Thompson Across A Crowded Room. And all three are among my all-time faves, (perhaps not) coincidentally.
    C in California

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  33. Luskus Delph -Procol Harum

    I've Been Loving You Too Long (Too Stop Now) - Otis Redding

    Payday - The Broadcasters

    Captain Al

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  34. Luskus Delph is a breakup song? Really? Guess I'm too stupid to figure that out. Always thought it was about lustful obsession. Poetic pussy. Arty smut. Then again, the chicken fat imagery is kinda gross.

    Anyway, the non-stop Gene Clark Mammorial Day Sonic Barbecue Bash continues.

    Stay With Me Baby – Lorraine Ellison/Terry Reid
    Alone Again Or – Love/UFO
    The Price of Love – Everly Brothers/Robert Plant & Alison Krauss
    Walking On a Wire – Richard & Linda Thompson (Richard & Linda. Two Birds with One Stone.)
    Without You - Badfinger/Nilsson (Guess I could throw Heart in there too)
    Without Her – Nilsson/ Blood,Sweat & Tears
    It's Over - Roy Orbison
    You Tell Me - Tom Petty & the Heartbreakers
    Miss Love - Subdudes (briliant and soulful-Tommy Malone is the shit)
    The French Inhaler – Warren Zevon
    Try Me – UFO (my ex was a guitar player/dope dealer. He turned me on to UFO. Schenker is a very melodic player. I like a lot of stuff UFO did from 1974-1978. And unapologetically.)
    Parallel Lines – Todd Rundgren (unrequited love as ony Todd can do it)
    Fading Lady - Jerry Jeff Walker
    Irene Wilde (live version with my scream) - Ian Hunter (unrequited love)
    You’re Gonna Get It - Tom Petty & the Heartbreakers
    Point Blank - The Butt
    Run For Your Life – Beatles
    Thin Line Between Love and Hate – Persuaders/Pretenders
    Creep - Radiohead/Pretenders
    Hurt - Tom Petty & the Heartbreakers
    Speak Now Or Forever Hold Your Peace – Terry Reid/Cheap Trick/Taylor Hawkins
    Tore Up Over You - Hank Ballard/Jerry Garcia
    Time On My Hands – UFO
    She Left Me Holdin’ – Jerry Jeff Walker
    You Oghta Know - Alanis Morisette (or however the fuck you spell it)
    The Best of Everything – Tom Petty & the Heartbreakers
    Looks Like Rain - Grateful Dead/Bob Weir
    Gone - Joey Heatherton version (Me and Sandy wamted to be her) (saw her in Vegas)
    Ships - Ian Hunter
    Still I'm Sad - Yardbirds
    Tell Me When It's Over - Sheryl Crow
    No More Looking Back – Kinks
    Funny (How Time Slips Away) - Joe Hinton/Billy Walker/Wille Nelson
    Rosecrans Blvd - 5th Dimension (another Jimmy Webb weird one)
    It'll ALl Work Out - Tom Petty
    When the Spell Is Broken - Richard Thompson
    I’ll Forgive You If You Don’t - Jim Lauderdale (unrequited)
    You Can't Be Too Strong - Graham Parker (all-around fucked-up situation)
    Streets of Baltimore - Bobby Bare/Gram Parsons/Nancy Griffith/Willie Nelson etc
    Always On My Mind - Willie Nelson/Brenda Lee/The Pelvis
    Echo – Tom Petty (kinda boring musically but he gets a lot off of his chest)
    Black-Throated Wind - Grateful Dead/Bob Weir
    Shoot Shoot – UFO (nightmare from hell girlfriend)
    Jolene – Dolly Parton
    I Heard It Through the Grapevine – Gladys Knight/Marvin Gaye/Creedence
    My Baby Left Me – Elvis Presley/Wanda Jackson/Creedence
    When I Had You – Jerry Jeff Walker (best when on the verge of passing out)
    Witchy Woman – Eagles (girlfriend from hell)
    I Used to Love Her (But I Had to Kill Her) – Guns ‘n Roses (not as fun as it should be)
    (Last Night) I Couldn’t Get To Sleep At All – 5th Dimension
    High Flyer - UFO
    Is This What I Get For Loving You - Ronettes/Marianne Faithfull/David Johansen (none of these live up to song's potential)
    Total Eclipse of the Heart - Bonnie Tyler/Chloe Kohanski
    Criminal – Fiona Apple

    WORST
    If You Leave Me Now – Chicago (Worst)
    November Rain - Guns 'n Roses

    VR good morning and goodnight.

    Somebody to Love - Queen

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  35. Sorry VR: Your correct, just because the song is dripping with lust it's not a breakup song just extremely meaty.

    Sweaty Captain Al

    :-)

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  36. Put some pants on, man.

    VR :)

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  37. The Anonymous DB5/28/2024 9:23 PM

    We Just Disagree - Dave Mason
    NYCG (New York City Girl) - Cross Canadian Ragweed

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