Friday, April 03, 2026

La Fin de La Semaine Essay Question: Special "Oh Yes, It's Ladies Night!" Edition

Okay, I only vaguely remember reading this actual NY Times Op Ed when it was new, i.e. early 1971.

But after it popped up on a friend's Facebook page the other day, I found it...er...interesting.

So here it is -- we'll get to the question part of today's festivities after you peruse it in its entirety.

DOES ROCK DEGRADE WOMEN?
By Marion Meade
March 14, 1971
THE NEW YORK TIMES

LAST spring I sat through three hours of the film “Woodstock” alternating between feelings of enchantment and repulsion. Sure, there was all that magnificent music, along with the generous helpings of peace and love and grass. And yet I found something persistently disturbing about the idyllic spectacle on the screen.

For one thing, with the exception of a pregnant Joan Baez who couldn't seem to stop talking about her husband, all the musicians were men. Sweaty, bearded men were busy building the stage, directing traffic, shooting the film, and running the festival. Brotherhood was repeatedly proclaimed, both on stage and off. Woodstock Nation was beginning to look ominously like a fantasyland which only welcomed men. How about the women? Barefooted and sometimes barebreasted, they sprawled erotically in the grass, looked after their babies, or dished up hot meals. If this was supposed to be the Aquarian Utopia, it reminded me more of a Shriners picnic at which the wife and kiddies are invited to participate once a year. [Heh.--S.S. 😎]

Looking back, I think the movie confirmed an uneasiness I'd felt for some time but had refused to admit: Rock music, in fact the entire rock “culture,” is tremendously degrading to women. I reached this conclusion reluctantly and with a good deal of sadness because rock has been important to me. And while I still dig the vitality of the sound, I find myself increasingly turned off in nearly every other respect.

Stokely Carmichael recalls that as a child he loved Westerns and always cheered wildly for the cowboys to triumph over the Indians until one day he realized he was an Indian. All along he'd been rooting for the wrong side. More and more, women rock fans are discovering themselves in the same curiously surprised position. For those who have taken the trouble to listen carefully, rock's message couldn't be clearer. It's a man's world, baby, and women have only one place in it. Between the sheets or, if they're talented like Arlo Guthrie's Alice, in the kitchen.

The paradox is that rock would appear to be an unlikely supporter of such oldfashioned sex‐role stereotypes. In fact, its rebellion against middle‐class values, its championing of the unisex fashions and long hair styles for men seem to suggest a blurring of the distinctions between male and female. But for all the hip camouflage sexism flourishes.

The clearest indication of how rock music views womankind is in its lyrics. Women certainly can't complain that the image presented there is one‐dimensional. On the contrary, the put‐downs are remarkably multifaceted, ranging from open contempt to sugar‐coated condescension. Above all, however, women are always‐available sexual objects whose chief function is to happily accommodate any man who comes along.

This wasn't always the case. Elvis's pelvis notwithstanding, the popular songs of the Fifties and early Sixties explored such innocuous adolescent pastimes as dancing around the clock, the beach, going steady, and blue suede shoes. In those days before the so‐called sexual revolution, the typical woman portrayed in rock was the nice girl next door with whom the Beatles Than wanted to’ hold hands. Than suddenly came the nice girl's metamorphosis into “groovy chick,” the difference being that a groovy chick is expected to perform sexually. In rock songs, she never fails.

The worst picture of women appears in the music of the Rolling Stones, where sexual exploitation reaches unique heights. A woman is a “Stupid Girl” who should be kept “Under My thumb',” a “Honky Tonk Woman” who gives a man “Satisfaction.” In “Yesterday's Papers,” where women are equated with newspapers, the dehumanization is carried to an extreme. Who wants yesterday's papers, the song arrogantly demands, who wants yesterday's girl? The answer: Nobody. Once used, a woman is as valuable as an old newspaper, presumably good only for wrapping garbage.

But the Stones’ album Let It Bleed is surely unrivaled when it comes to contempt for women, as well as lewdness in general. One cut in particular, “Live With Me,” is explicit about woman's proper place:

"Come now, honey, doncha’ want to live with me?
Doncha’ think there's a place for you in between the sheets?"

And only an extraordinarily masochistic woman could listen to the album's title song with any sense of pleasure whatsoever. There a woman is represented as a drive‐in bordello, a one‐stop sexual shopping center offering all the standard services plus a few extras casually thrown in as a kind of shopper's Special of the Day.

The Stones' next album has been tentatively titled Bitch. It figures. [Uh, no.--S.S.😎]

Misogyny is only slightly more disguised in the music of Bob Dylan who, in his early work at least, tended to regard nearly every female as a bitch.. For example, in “Like a Rolling Stone” Dylan apparently feels so threatened by Miss Lonely (whose only sin as far as I can tell is that she has a rather shallow lifestyle) that he feels compelled to destroy her. First he takes away her identity, then he puts her out on the street without shelter or food, and in the end — obliteration, as he makes her invisible. “How does it feel?” he asks.

There's no more complete catalogue of sexist slurs than Dylan's “Just Like a Woman,” In which he defines woman's natural traits as greed, hypocrisy, whining, and hysteria. But isn't that cute, he concludes, because it's “just like a woman.” For a finale he throws in the patronizing observation that adult women have a way of breaking “just like a little girl.”

These days a seemingly mellowed Dylan has been writing about women with less hatred but the results still aren't especially flattering. Now he calls his females ladies and invites them to lay across his big brass bed. In short he has more or less caught up with Jim Morrison's request to “Light my fire” and with john Lennon's suggestion, “Why ‘don't we do it in the road?”

Again and again throughout rock lyrics women emerge either as insatiable, sex-crazed animals or all-American emasculators. Although one might think these images indicate a certain degree of aggressiveness in women, oddly enough they still wind up in a servile position where they exist only to enhance the lives of men.

As for romance, rock hasn't rejected it entirely. Rock love songs exhibit a regular gallery of passive, spiritless women, sad‐eyed ladies propped on velvet thrones as the private property of a Sunshine Superman. From the Beatles we get motherly madonnas whispering words of wisdom (“Let it be, let it be”) or pathetic spinsters like Eleanor Rigby who hang around churches after weddings to collect the rice. Leonard Cohen's romantic ideal is the mystical Suzanne who wears rags from the Salvation Army and acts, the composer asserts, “half crazy.” Seldom does one run across a mature, Intelligent woman or, for that matter a woman who is capable enough to hold a job (one exception is the Beatles’ meter maid, Rita). Only the Stones’ Ruby Tuesday insists on an independent life of her own.

Since rock is written almost entirely by men, it's hardly surprising to find this frenzied celebration of masculine supremacy. But it's also understandable in terms of the roots from which rock evolved. In both blues and country musk, attitudes toward women reflected a rabid machismo: men always dominated and women were fickle bitches who ran off with other men. Often they were seen in relationship to the wandering superstud who recounts his conquests in every town along the road, a fantasy which remains fashionable in rock today.

Apart from the myths of female inferiority proclaimed by rock lyricists, the exploitation and dehumanization of women also extends into the off‐stage rock scene. How else can one account for a phenomenon like the groupies? That these aggressive teen‐age camp followers could possibly be regarded as healthy examples of sexual liberation is certainly a cruel joke. In fact, groupies service the needs of the male musicians and further symbolize rock's impersonal view of, women as cheap commodities which an be conveniently disposed of after use. The Stones said it: nobody in the world wants yesterday's papers.

Finally, rock is a field from which women have been virtually excluded as musicians. Not only is it rare to find an integrated band, but the few all‐female groups have been notably unsuccessful. The very idea of a women's rock band is looked on as weird, in the same category as Phil Spitalny's all‐girl orchestra, a freak show good for a few giggles.

The problem is that women have been intimidated from even attempting a career in rock. Women, the myths says, aren't smart enough to understand the complexitles of electronics or tough enough to compose music of sufficient intensity or physically strong enough to play drums. The guitar is acceptable but the electric guitar is unfeminine.

As for female rock singers, you can count them on a few fingers. We did have Janis Joplin, a blueswoman in the finest tradition of Bessie Smith and Billie Holiday. When Janis wailed about love as a ball and chain and women being losers, now there were ideas with which women could identify. At least we knew what she meant. The soul sounds of Tina Turner and Laura Nyro also radiate the feeling that they know what it's like to be a woman. Otherwise, just about the only rock queen left is Grace Slick. Although some may regard her private life as liberated in that she decided to have an illegitimate child and generally appears to care little for society's conventions, even her work with the Jefferson Airplane is hardly oriented toward women.

Which leaves us with Joan Baez, Judy Collins and Joni Mitchell, who specialize in the bland folk‐rock deemed appropriate for a delicate sex.

At this point, what does rock offer women? Mighty little.

Recently, however, rock bands have reported strange happenings at concerts. Instead of the usual adoring screams from the women, every so often they've been hearing boos and unladylike shouts of “male chauvinist pigs.” Because the bands tend to regard these disturbances as a puzzling but passing phenomenon, they've made little effort so far to understand the changes taking place in their audience. What they fail to recognize is that the condescending swaggering which worked for Elvis in the Fifties and the sadistic anti‐woman sneers of Mick Jagger in the Sixties are no longer going to make it in the Seventies.

There's no question that rock is already in trouble. The current spiritual and economic malaise has been variously attributed to the Hendrix‐Joplin deaths, the general tightness of money, as well as lackluster albums and tired performances from the popular stars. Whatever the reasons, rock listeners today are plainly bored. Does anyone really care if John, Paul, Ringo, and George ever get together again? Not me.

On the other hand, isn't it about time for women to band together and invade the chauvinistic rock scene? Only then will the vicious stereotypes be eliminated and, one hopes, some fresh energy generated as well. For too long we've sat wistfully on the sidelines, acting out our expected roles as worshipful groupies.

Women have always constituted an important segment of the rock audience. Unless the industry is willing to alienate us completely, they'd better remember what Bob Dylan said about not needing a weatherman to know which way the wind blows. For the times they are a‐changin', eh, fellas?

So????

...and your thoughts on the whole "sexism in rock" thing is...?

Discuss.

Okay, the short version of my take on this is -- yeah, Meade (who was a very interesting writer) made a lot of valid points, especially about the groupie thing.

But a lot -- too many -- of her specific examples were kinda really bogus.

I mean, c'mon -- "Eleanor Rigby" degrades women?

Puhleeze. 😎

And I should add that the Woodstock movie is far worse than Meade makes it out, i.e. it's mostly stunningly boring, except for the three or four minutes of Sha-Na-Na near the end.

Anyway - and your thoughts are?

And have a great weekend, everybody!!!

Thursday, April 02, 2026

You Thursday Moment of "Good Yontiff, Pontiff!"

Well, it's the second night of Passover, and as is our holiday custom, we give you Gefilte Joe and the Fish and their anthemic Red Sea Pedestrian dance classic "Matzoh Man."

To all our readers of the Hebraic persuasion -- a very zissen Pesach.

Wednesday, April 01, 2026

I Must Say, It's a Little Unsettling to Be So Obviously a Member of the Demographic This Video is Aimed At

Guitarist/vocalist Peter Black, a/k/a Blackie of veteran Aussie band The Hard-Ons, just dropped a new song. And my life has been changed in mysterious ways as a result.

I was unfamiliar with Black until I saw the above, which is from A Bowl of Spiders, one of two new albums he has coming out momentarily. In any case, I am reliably informed that the Hard-Ons (who've been around since 1982) are quite a big deal in their native Australia, as is Black, i.e. he hangs out with and is highly regarded by the likes of the Hoodoo Gurus, Redd Kross and Nick Cave.

In any case, man -- does that video ever talk to me. I mean, I really know the feeling.

And I suspect a fair number of the people reading this here blog know it too. 😎

Tuesday, March 31, 2026

Monday, March 30, 2026

Records I'd Forgotten Existed, Let Alone Loved (An Occasional Series): Special "Kool Kinks Kovers" Edition

From 1979, and the eponymous American version of their debut album (titled Shades in Bed in the UK), please enjoy power pop gods The Records and a fab gear re-make of possibly my all-time favorite song by The Kinks.

That was originally on a 7-inch bonus EP that had three other interesting versions of songs by other people -- "Abracadabra" by Blue Ash, "1984" by Spirit, and the Stones' "Have You Seen Your Mother Baby".

The album per se, of course, included "Starry Eyes," a song which could be said -- in fact which HAS been said, by me -- to sum up the entire mission statement of this here blog.

I played the album to death when it first came out, and the Records were a HUGE influence on the early Floor Models; in fact we used to do a live cover of "Hearts in Her Eyes," from their 1980 followup album Crashes, so often that everybody in Greenwich Village thought we wrote it.

In any case, I had completely not remembered the EP until it popped into my head unbidden last week. And I had absolutely blanked on the Stones cover, which I can not alas seem to find an online version of.

If any of you guys have a copy stashed somewhere, I wouldn't be averse to you sending me a zip file of it, obviously. 😎

Friday, March 27, 2026

Weekend Fundraiser

Okay, the short version.

Someone dear to a long-time friend of mine -- I won't go into the details, but let's just say that Six Degrees of (my old garage band) The Weasels kinda sums it up -- just had his house burn down around him.

Let that sink in for a second. I mean, I can't even begin to guess how horrible it must be to deal with that.

The good news is he got out physically unscathed. The bad news is literally everything else you could imagine, including the loss of a collection of vintage guitars and (most heartbreakingly) his beloved 10 year old cat Gracie.

In sum, he is now homeless and emotionally devastated.

That being the case, I am asking my readers to please share the story above and the Go Fund Me link below to your social media accounts, even if you can't yourself donate.

Helping Carl rebuild after losing everything in a house fire

In either case, it would be, as we Red Sea pedestrians refer to it, a mitzvah.

Thanks in advance, kids.

See you with happier stuff on Monday.

Thursday, March 26, 2026

Okay, How Did I Miss This One?

The Rolling Stones, live at the Camden Theater in 1964, with their fabulous cover of "Route 66."

In genuine stereo. With no screaming kids. 😎

Seriously -- I had a huge collection of vintage Stones bootlegs, live and studio, back in the day, and yet I was unaware of the above until I stumbled across it on YouTube over the weekend. I'm baffled.

Oh well, I supposed I should just be grateful that such surprises are still out there in my old age. 😎😎

Wednesday, March 25, 2026

Songs I'd Forgotten Existed, Let Alone Loved (An Occasional Series): Special "Le Chanson Incroyable" Edition

Oh. My. God.

Seriously, I don't think I've listened to that under the headphones in at least four decades. And by the time the harmonies came in at the end, I was a goner once again.

I should add that when that first came out in 1970 (just before the public breakup of the Beatles) I remember thinking "that may be the most beautiful song Paul's ever written."

And hearing it now, after all the intervening years, I see no reason to revise my opinion.

Tuesday, March 24, 2026

Tuesday's Music-Themed Cartoon Chuckles

The Gary Larson whale singing one is one of my all time favorites. First time I saw it I nearly fell out of my chair laughing. 😎

[h/t Robert Soltermann]

Monday, March 23, 2026

Monday Public Service Announcement

Attention, readers/musicians in the New York City area!

A friend of mine is moving to Florida, and he has no room in his new place for his beloved -- and practically never used -- Yamaha hardwood electronic keyboard.

He's letting it go for $1000.00 (Cheap! as they used to say at Mad Magazine).

If you're interested, get in touch with me in comments, and I'll hook you guys up. (Said friend lives in my Queens neighborhood of Forest Hills -- if you go out to see the instrument, let's do lunch when you're done!).

Meanwhile, as our president would put it, thank you for your attention to this matter.

Traditional PowerPop daily fare resumes on the morrow.